Joy Chinwe

I try to be nice, even when you obviously do not deserve it. I get hurt, yet I smile and go on like nothing happened. You do nothing but get on my last nerve yet I forgive and help you out however I can, whenever you ask for it. It doesn't make me daft, it just means I'd rather forgive and move on... than hold a grudge. Still, I'm so young to be that strong, for you, for anyone. Somehow, you have become my strongest weakness. After years and years of holding on, today, I'm finally letting go. Took me long enough but I'm finally doing it. Seems hard- no- it is hard but it can't get any worse. Actually it can only get better. As much as it hurts, I won't stop being kind, I won't stop forgiving, I won't stop trying to forget, I won't stop being there for you whenever you need me. I wouldn't let you make me stop, because if I do that, I have just let you win. So right now, I'm pouring my heart out, I'm going all out for a taste o...

Take a look at my face, Admire my beautiful palms, Clean with  lines Are they not lovely? Just try to turn your gaze, And I'll deep my hands in the swamps. In there I'm fine, Do I seem dirty? I keep deceiving people, The greatest of them all being myself, Society is dictating,I lie again, Is there really pressure on me? This is not a riddle, Not a book on your shelf, I need to be watered by the rain, Can this make me free?               Cos I am a HYPOCRITE

The human brain they say, functions more than a computer. Even at that, I bet there are things you never knew the brain could do. Today; I'll list some of the most amazing facts about the brain. The brain cannot feel pain, this is because there are no pain receptors present in the brain. The size of an average brain is 2% of the individual's weight. Having a good yawn is good for the brain, it sends more oxygen to the brain. Your brain cells can eat each other up if the energy supply comes in short at any point. One reason we are always advised to sleep well at night, is because that is when the brain reconciles all of it's activities for the day. You can go unconscious if your brain looses blood for up to 10seconds. The human brain has more fat than any other part of your body. Up to 60% of it's contents are mostly fat. Being constantly abused as a child, according to several studies, has a way of slowing the brain's development. The human br...

Masturbation centres around pleasing oneself physically. It is mostly common among men according to several studies, although in recent times, a large percentage of women has joined in as well. Masturbation and Pornography are like two sides of a coin, this is why for the last decade, due to access of pornographic materials easily  on the internet, Masturbation has increased drastically. There has been a lot of argument on whether masturbation is right or wrong. Those arguing on the side of the former did so on health grounds, saying that it 'Prevents Prostrate cancer, trains one's longevity during sex, helps those practising abstinence, prevents unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Whilst those arguing on the side of the latter did so on mostly religious grounds; making reference to scriptures like 1st Corinthians 6:18 which talks about 'staying away from sexual immorality and sin against one's body'. The bible however did not specificall...

Relationships take a lot of work to build, it even takes more work when you have doubts concerning how faithful your partner is. These doubts may arise as a result of some actions of your partner which could make it seem like he/she is cheating on you. Actions like: Changes in his or her fashion style: All of a sudden, your partner begins to take a lot of hours to get ready. There is a drastic change in their fashion sense, always striving to look good, wear better perfumes and other little beauty secrets, chances are, they are either after someone, or someone is after them. Need for increased privacy: They just develop need for privacy. They would not let you touch their phones and even go as far as changing their passwords. A Lot of sneaking around also happens when taking phone calls from strange numbers. This is also a sign that something is wrong. Always playing the 'busy' card: They no longer have time for you. Intimate moments become vague. They can make an excuse wit...